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Joy (Gelb) Leibman, Eunice and Howard Gelb posted a condolence
Sunday, January 13, 2008
To Debbie and Abe: Sincere condolences on behalf of my parents and myself. I have many memories of our years growing up together in St. Paul, spending time at your home & your Prior Lk. cabin, with your dad helping us fish for crappies and your mom taking us water-skiing. Your dad lived a long and very productive life; cherish all your special memories of him -and your mom. Know that friends wish you well, despite never seeing or hearing from you for so many years after our childhood has passed! My parents wanted me to be sure to express sympathies to you as well. They do not e-mail!
Hope your family is well. Joy
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Stephen Margolis posted a condolence
Thursday, December 27, 2007
I am a friend and neighbor of Phil Freeman. I never met Sydney but had several long phone conversations with him. Debbie, please accept my sincere condolence on your loss. Stephen Margolis Mendota Heights, MN
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Jan (Shilkrout) Vinocur posted a condolence
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Debbie: I am very sorry to hear about "Uncle Sidney's" passing. I've often thought about your family and our long time connection. I also have fond memories of Prior Lake, as well as Merrywood, Mt. Zion, and the many social gatherings we shared with Highland Park families. A favorite memory of your dad is from a party at our house, where he was listening to PDQ Bach for the first time. He was laughing so hard he was crying - which made us all laugh even more. My best to you and your family. Jan
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Dawn Foote posted a condolence
Thursday, December 20, 2007
I was saddened to hear of your father's passing. I spent some lovely times with him in Lilydale. I knew your Dad was smart, fun, adventurous---but until I read his obituary, I didn't realize he was brilliant! Imagine being granted a patent this year! We went to movies, dinner at the Lexington, to a micro-brewery to sample beer, when I told him I was going to the Swedish Institute and my favorite on the menu was gravlax--he explained to me how it got its name and the old fashioned process used to make it. He always had an interesting addition, clever comment or anecdote ready for every occasion. I got engaged, left Lilydale and although we shared a few phone calls we lost track of one another. But I have thought of him often and his wonderful gentle nature. As a matter of extreme interest to me---I was thinking of Sid
only two days before I read the notice of his death. I hope he heard my pleasant thoughts and memories of him. I hope you know you were blessed to have him for 97 wonderful years--I cherish my scant two years knowing him.
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Bernie Weitzman posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Debbie, This new laptop has a keyboard that doesn't follow my directions. Sidney and I enjoyed the Duck Soup at the Moose and Alice and I send our condolences to you and your familly. Perhaps you remember our daughter Brbara from riding at Merrywood. She too sends condolonces. Lest I forget, Sidney's barber was devatated by his passing Bernie Weitzman
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Bernie Weitzman posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Here in Lildale we miss sidney very much. i miss having Dduck Soup with him at the Moose Country. The staff at the Moose also were very dad when he moved from Lilydale.Alice and I send to Debbie and her family.
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Patty Costello posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Sidney was my mentor and friend. We met while I was waitressing at the Moose in Lilydale, MN. He came in often for dinner after his dear wife died, and we quickly became friends. I was working on my BA in Psychology at the time, and Sidney took it upon himself to become my mentor as I was planning to pursue a PhD in Neuroscience. We often went to dinner, taking turns driving and buying dinner. I was relieved, I admit, when I became the sole driver of our dinner excursions. We would talk for hours about science, philosophy, Sidney's dissertation work and my dissertation work. I was delighted that I got to personally hear his stories of his work in the war, and a friend of mine that joined us once for dinner is still convinced that Sidney worked on a secret project during the war. I missed Sidney when he moved out East, but I knew that it was best for him to be with his family, close to those who dearly loved him. He spoke proudly of his granddaughter, daughter, and son-in-law, so much so that I felt as if I knew you personally. I do hope I will have the opportunity to meet you all one day. I thought of Sidney today with a saddened heart, before I heard the news, and realized that his time had come. All who had the pleasure to know him are truly blessed by his friendship and brilliance.
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Martha Gulner posted a condolence
Monday, December 17, 2007
Deb~ One of my fondest memories of your dad was the summer of 1986 at Prior Lake. It was extremely hot; our kids were still not swimmers and complained bitterly about wearing their itchy life vests in the water. Your dad, who did not like to actually get IN the lake, took it upon himself to teach the boys to swim. He spent an entire afternoon with them, and by the end they were both swimming like fish. Your dad never complained, and I never saw him get back in the lake again! He was a teacher, a friend, and a mensch all in that one afternoon. He will be missed.
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Norris Family posted a condolence
Monday, December 17, 2007
Debbie, Laura and family, My mother and siblings send their sympathy. Mr. Rubens was a good friend and great college of my father's. And my mother was much saddened by the news and fondly recalls the happy times they shared, with both your parents who were both exceptional people.
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Emmy Lou Jacobson posted a condolence
Monday, December 17, 2007
Dear Debbie, I remember your wonderful father with such respect. He was always so proud of you, I send you love and good thoughts at this time.Emmy Lou Jacobson
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Mildred Miller posted a condolence
Monday, December 17, 2007
Dear Debbie:I have so many fond and wonderful memories of your parents, especially sharing summers at Prior Lake with them and the Levys. We enjoyed great years together. My best and love to you all. Millie
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Elaine Tuhy posted a condolence
Monday, December 17, 2007
Dr Deb, I purchased your Dad's condo at Lexington Riverside in Lilydale. We have many happy gatherings filled with family and friends. I hear from the other residents that Dr Rubens was an incredible person. I am very sorry for your loss. Elaine Tuhy
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Dick Seaberg posted a condolence
Monday, December 17, 2007
Sid was a technology giant and legend at Univac. He was both highly respected and feared in the marketplace because of his leadership and many technical contributions. His name is synonymous with Univac's success!
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Allan Edwards (Front Royal, VA) posted a condolence
Monday, December 17, 2007
Here are a couple of pictures of Dr. Rubens with his old friends from the ERA/Univac era. It was taken at a luncheon at the Manor in St. Paul near old Plant 1.
The other is with myself, Sid and Bob Hafventstein. Bob is the husband of Sally Halvorson who knew Sid and was responsible for finding many of his old papers for him.
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Emily Seesel (St. Paul, MN) posted a condolence
Monday, December 17, 2007
I was so sad to read about my old
friend, Sid, and have been wondering
how he was getting along.. He was such a wonderful man, just one in a
million... My sympathy to his daughter, Deb, and to his son-in-law, Abe, as well as to his grand-
daughter, Lauren. I am thinking of
you all with sympathy and sorrow..
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Philip Freeman (St. Paul, MN) posted a condolence
Monday, December 17, 2007
The Ruben-Freeman goes family goes back a long ways. I will always remember the wonderful times we had at Prior Lake whether it be fishing, eating or discussing things of technical nature. Sidney will be sorely missed by all those who knew him.
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Beth Freeman posted a condolence
Monday, December 17, 2007
Dear Deb, Lauren & Abe, It is with great sadness that I learned of your father and grandfather's passing. Although I had not seen him in many years, he will always hold a very special place in my heart. When John and I first started dating and later married, he and your mother welcomed me into the fold with open arms. Whenever I asked a question , Sid never talked down to me, never said "you would'nt understand" but instead tried to explain so that I would understand. He was a great man. Full of love and compassion. My thought are with you. Love, Beth
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Mark Gulner posted a condolence
Sunday, December 16, 2007
I am sorry for your loss. He was a great person and I have many fond memories of spending time with him on Prior Lake.
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Rick Launer posted a condolence
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Although I haven't seen Sid for several years as I suspect he moved to NY to be closer to his family he always brought a big smile,a warm heart and always an interesting conversation. He was a true " mensch". My condolences to his daughter Deborah and her family.
Visitation
The family will receive friends on Wednesday, December 26, 2007 from 5:30-6:30 PM at Brighton Memorial Chapel.
Service Info
A Memorial Service will be held on Wednesday, December 26, 2007 at 6:30 PM in the chapel of the funeral home.
Interment
Private
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