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Stan Tso posted a condolence
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Thanks for your friendship.
May you rest in peace David.
Stan Tso
Cornell 1983
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Lenny Cooper posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear about Dave's passing. I knew him from Sperry Hall at Cornell. I recall him being a warm and friendly guy to whom people naturally flocked. Someone who could really enjoy life deeply and make the people around him enjoy it as well. I am heartened to see that he was able to make his way in life to something he loved doing and to have had a profound positive effect on the people around him. My condolences go out to his family and friends.
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Michelle Lindsay posted a condolence
Thursday, March 26, 2009
5 years ago as a sophomore in college, I worked closely with David as he helped shape me into a professional triathlete. Like most triathletes, I asked tons of questions which he always thoroughly and promptly responded to. Although we have since lost touch, I continue to follow a core workout he gave me, and today I thought of him when I was completing the workout. I decided to look him up and was shocked to find this page... I hope he knows how grateful I am for his caring coaching and advice that I've passed on to other athletes. I will never forget his thorough and helpful posts on triatlete.com. Cindy, I hope you are doing okay and I will be thinking of you.
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Loren Starr posted a condolence
Saturday, March 14, 2009
I was so saddened when I learned of the sudden passing of David. Unfortunately, I did not keep in touch after high school and I frequently wondered what became of him. I have wonderful memories of David as being smart, kind, and passionate about life. I miss my friend even more now that I will never be able to know him beyond my high school memories. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
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Mark Sixbey (Walworth, NY) posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
I worked with David at the Gananda pool where he taught Water Aerobics. I spoke with him just a few days before and he seemed to be in good spirits. I am incredibly saddened by his sudden passing. I surely thought he could beat this. My deepest condolences go to his family and friends. He'll be missed!
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Audrey Abbondanzieri posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
I have been in Florida for the month of Feb. and looking forward to coming back to my classes with David on T&Th. I am so sadden to learn today that David has passed. He was an exceptional teacher and a good friend to all of us. He was smart and oh so funny....someone who is unforgettable. I will pray for you Cindy and am so sorry for your loss.
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Carol Schott posted a condolence
Monday, March 2, 2009
I was stopped in my tracks to read of David's passing. He was my personal trainer at the JCC for a short time, but his commitment to spreading his wealth of knowledge about fitness and health was obvious.
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Ann Penwarden (former ROCOSH Board member) posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Cindy, So sorry to hear of your loss. My heartfelt sympathy go to you and your family at this time.
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Kim Taylor (Swallow) - UK posted a condolence
Monday, February 23, 2009
So shocked and saddened by the news of David's loss. I remember him so well from UNIS - so brilliant at math and computers (I never understood them!)always making us laugh and most importantly of all his kindness and friendship. Regret not being able to see him once more at the Reunion. Thoughts and sympathy for those he left behind - he will live on in all our memories.
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Susan Kidd (Rochester, NY) posted a condolence
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Cindi and Family,
I was saddened to hear about your loss. David was my personal trainer for years. I always marveled at his depth of knowledge and his ability to help me in every aspect of my work outs. He was dedicated to his profession and his clients. We shared a love for math and he always enjoyed being able to describe the mathematics of any problem. I will miss him and his sense of humor. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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David Barbero (Penfield, NY) posted a condolence
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Sorry to here about David. Had some good times at Lyons Fitness.
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Megan Stadler (Penfield, NY) posted a condolence
Saturday, February 21, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. I know that David will be missed. I really enjoyed his aqua fitness class and all the knowledge I gained taking it. May God give you peace at this time in your grief.
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Beth Ares (Former ROCOSH Board) posted a condolence
Friday, February 20, 2009
So sorry to hear of your loss-love and sympathy to you
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Veronique (Chesnais) Christensen posted a condolence
Friday, February 20, 2009
I was so saddened to hear of David's passing. He was a camp counsellor when I was a kid at UNIS & like my brother Pascal, I vividly remember David's rousing (and seemiingly endless!) rendition of "Alice's Restaurant" -- I always think of him & smile when I hear that song. My sincerest condolences to his family and friends.
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Bonnie Burdick (CooperVision) posted a condolence
Friday, February 20, 2009
I was very saddened to have read this news Cindy. We worked together way back in the day at CooperVision. My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. May you live with beautiful memories of David. Take care and God bless.
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Sheila Antil-Arrajj posted a condolence
Friday, February 20, 2009
Dear Cindy,I am at a loss for words and stunned to hear about Dave's passing. He was just so full of life. I so enjoyed working for him at Lion's Fountain Fitness because his passion for health and fitness. He was always such a wealth of knowledge and helped me improve my classes. I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gerri Budd posted a condolence
Thursday, February 19, 2009
I also knew David from high school and this is such a sad shock. My prayers are with his family at this time, and please know that he touched all our lives in wonderful ways.
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Will Kirousis posted a condolence
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Regrettably I have not been in great contact with David the last few years. His passion and wit, his love of teaching and willingness to share have always stood out to me. I loved seeing the two of you up at Timberman and the email "brain storming" sessions with David. My thoughts are with you Cindy. Take very good care ok.
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Jimmy RASOLONDRAIBE (Madagascar) posted a condolence
Thursday, February 19, 2009
lion’s fountain will roar no more. was with great suddenness and sorrow that david passed away.
will always remember his wit and the energy that he brought to life.
condolences to his wife cindy and his children. may they some day retrieve this sense of energy that was typical of david.
me ke aloha nui
veloma
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Carl Grimm posted a condolence
Thursday, February 19, 2009
I am very saddened by David's passing. The fond memories of him catching me and tending to me after the 2004 Hawaii Ironman finish will be with me forever. His counsel will be sorely missed.
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Carol S. Maue 2 18 09 posted a condolence
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Cindy, David will be sorely missed. He was a vibrant man, full of life, intelligent, funny, warm and caring. Working with him at the Canandaigua triathalon in the transition area was always lots of fun. I too, have experienced loss, too soon,and my heart goes out to you. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gail and Dan Mukamal posted a condolence
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Cindy, We cannot believe we are writing this. He left us too early. We have not stopped thinking about David since we found out he was sick. Our hearts go out to you. David was such a wonderful person. He had a great sense of humor. We will remember all of the happy times we shared with you both. David also was such a kind and thoughtful person. He will be greatly missed. We are so sorry we cannot be with you at the service. Please remember we are there in spirit.
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Richard & Beverly Neatrour posted a condolence
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Cindy, My family and I extend our deepest condolences to you. Dave's compassion,curiosity, and energy shone through to all who knew him.
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Kathy Stewart posted a condolence
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Cindy, I am so very sorry for your loss of David. I only met him a few times when I worked for you at Chamberlain, but I remember his wonderful smile and how nice he was. May God be with you through these days.
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Gary Glackin posted a condolence
Thursday, February 19, 2009
David no longer being with us is so difficult to imagine, he was so full of life. Truly a life well lived. David will be missed by so many whose lives he has touched, that is clear from the heartfelt comments I've read here. It is hard to imagine what an Ironman Championship in Kona will be like without David, I don't recall being there without him in the ten years I've been going there. It feels like I've lost a brother. Rest in Peace, David, you live on in our memories. My deep condolences to Cindy, and to all of us who have lost someone so special.
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Larry Schindel posted a condolence
Thursday, February 19, 2009
David's heart was truly bigger than he was, and he has made such a huge impact in my life, and I know countless others as well. David, you became a brother to me while we both lived in Rochester. Thank you so much. I miss you, we all miss you.
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Elektra Hammond (nee Sheryl Newman) [Cornell] posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
It's been far too long, but memories of you will live in my heart forever. You were one of my fondest memories of my time at Cornell.
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Carol Burrell (Cornell, Risley) posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Dear Cindy - I'm not sure whether I will be able to be with you on Thursday, but you'll be in my thoughts. David went out of his way to give his time and support way back when I was a freshman in Risley with wild ideas, and was generous and sweet when I saw him again years later at a reunion--welcoming and fun, kind and warmhearted. The one thing I remember best about that reunion was how very good it was to see him again. My deepest condolences to you and all the family.
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Robert Evans (Grenada) posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Greatly shocked to learn of David's passing. I schooled with David at the United Nations International School,and I always remembered his fascination with the TV show, Star Trek. Just can't believe he is gone. Well my friend rest in peace. To his wife (Cindy) and family,I wish to express my sincere condolences.
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Ree Brennin posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
David, I can't believe you're gone. You were one of the greatest treasures at UNIS. I knew I could count on you to bring the reunion to life and fill it with such laughter and great memories. I just can't stop crying. You are so missed! So very missed!
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Sylvia Gordon posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
David was one of my students at UNIS and I loved his intelligence and wit, his tireless efforts to help others, and his warmth towrds me and his whole community. Thank you for what you gave us, David! Deep condolences to his family and his other friends who loved him.
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Eric Wright posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
David was an amazing man who cared for everyone far beyond the norm. He has touched so many lives and improved them for the better, I am one of those people he touched. I pray that God grants you the strength to carry through. We owe it to David to go upward and onward, he shall not be forgotten.
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Donna Anastasi posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Our Y swim classs on Tuesday and Thursday mornings will never be the same without David. We will miss him. Our sympathy is extended to all of his family, and our prayers are with him.
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Catherine Nugent Panepinto posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Cindy - Marc and I were so sorry to read about David in the paper. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We want you to know we'd make the drive to Rochester tomorrow if it weren't for fact that Marc is undergoing surgery for diverticulitis . Anything we can do to help here from Buffalo please don't hesitate to ask and you will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Marc and Catherine
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Anna (Scheirich) Kitson posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
I "met" David on a triathlon board online and soon became a client of his after realizing how brilliant, caring and wonderful he was. He helped me better understand my body, both the physical and mental, helped me through injury and over-training and just plain made my life better by knowing him. His wisdom and caring reached far beyond training and working out. He came to be someone I wanted to make proud. I wanted to be a better person because of him and indeed, my life is the better for knowing him.
My great condolences to Cindy and family. I am so sorry for your loss. His memory will go on in the hearts of all he touched.
All my love--Anna
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Rachel (Rosen) Clar posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Cindy, I am so sorry for your loss. David's passing is a loss to all of us. I was heartbroken to hear of this when my mother called me yesterday to tell me. David was a friend to me at the JCC, years ago, and we kept in distant touch over the years. His dedication to fitness was so inspiring, and his smile made exercise so much easier. He will be so missed here on Earth.
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John Burch, MD posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
My condolences to Cindy and the rest of David's family. I did not know David, but I was on the Hemophilia Center Board with Cindy. I'm very sorry this tragedy has struck your family. Sincerely, John Burch
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Guy Wells (Cornell, grad '82) posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Haven't been in touch since Risley days at Cornell--but the memories are vivid. Heartfelt sympathy to the wonderful company of others who knew and loved him.
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Adria M. Moskowitz posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
To Cindy & Family - My most heartfelt sympathy to you in your time of grief. I, like Harold Mills, knew David from College -- Risley Hall at Cornell. He was always affectionate and full of energy. I can still hear his booming laugh and see him jiggling all over when something amused him. Sometimes with so much energy he'd make the table shake. He was a very good person. He will be greatly missed. I cannot be at the service due to geographic restrictions; but I will be thinking of you.
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kiran cheema class of 79' posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
may your family and friends have love and support at this time to heal..David may you rest in peace
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David Langmann (Rochester) posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Our heartfelt condolences go to David's family.
Our connection with him is that he was in my mother's French class at the UN school in NY, and that she was thrilled to visit him at the JCC some 20 years later on one of her last trips to Rochester.
May your memories of David be a comfort to you.
David and Susan Langmann
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Jan Gates (Rochester, NY) posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Cindy,
I was shocked to hear from Ellen Brenner today of David's passing. Like Lisa and Paul, I too, have many good memories of you and David and get togethers at Scotch and Sirloin and beyond. Many good laughs over the years. David was very dedicated to health and fitness and was an excellent personal trainer. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
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Tempee Warmack (Baltimore, MD) posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
worked with David many years ago and I always thought he was an incredible person. He touched alot of peoples lives and he surely touched mine. I will miss him.
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Pascal Chesnais posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
I am saddened to learn that David passed away. I went to high school with him at the United Nations International School. David was always full of energy and warmth to his friends. I will always remember David playing "Alice's Restaurant" for us at camps. I will bring a copy of the song to our 30th reunion this summer.
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Sandra White posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
I met David is 1998. I have Cystic Fibrosis and was on a waiting list for a double lung transplant. For 3 years we worked 3 times a week together. I hated working out, but David's dedication kept me going right to the end. I wouldn't be alive today if it wasn't for David's dedication and caring. Since then we have always been in touch and everytime I ran into a problem I called him. He talked with my Doctor's in Cleveland and Rochester to do the right thing. Just last September, I had hurt my hip and he came to my house and worked with me before I went on a vacation with my daughter. I van't picture a world without David. I won't know to call for help and idea's. The world is a much sadder and lonlier place without him. My condolences to his family and I can't even imagine the loss they are having. My prayer's and well wishes are with you.
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Richard Liberi posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
I knew Dave as my water aerobics instructor at the YMCA. It didn't take long to recognize him as a wonderful and caring person. I only knew him for about two years but I became good friends with him. I will sadly miss him but count myself lucky to have known him. I am sure he will be missed by all of my classmates at the YMCA. May GOD Bless all of his family at this sad time and forever.
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Harold Mills posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
I was fortunate to see Dave regularly during and just after his college years, at Risley Hall where we both lived, and in the Electrical Engineering department where we were both students. His joy and enthusiasm were infectious, and an encounter with Dave always brightened my day.
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CHERIE MAZZENGA posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
DEAR CINDY , I WAS SHOCKED ABD SADDENED TO SEE DAVID OBIT IN THE PAPER YESTERDAY. HE WAS A WONDERFUL MAN AND HIS HUMOR WAS THE BEST HE COULD IMITATE MANY OF MY FAVORITE MOVIE STARS AND MAKE US ALL LAUGH. I HAVE NOT SEEN HIM FOR ALONG TIME . AND I WAS GLAD THAT HE WAS SO WELL LOVED EVERY WHERE HE WAS WORKING. I ALWAYS LOVED HIS SMILING FACE AND HIS HUMOR. AND IT WILL BE MISSED . MY SINCERE CONDOLANCES TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. DAVID WILL BE MISSED .
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Larry Whiteside posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
I first met David at the Penfield Racquet Club in his Aquafit Class,and rejoined him in his class at the YMCA. I found him to be an excellent instructor who cared for each participant in a very personal way.
He introduced me to his favorite Hawaiian Music, and I will miss his vibrant personality and his Hawaiian Goodbye after each class. My deepest sympathy to Cindy and his family. May he rest in peace!
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Arlene Herrington posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
What a loss - David was one of a kind, a dear gentle soul.I attended his classes at the Y, then he became my personnel trainer. David was that rare individual who really listens to what someone else is saying. My heart felt smypathy to Cindy.
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Amanda Ianniello posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
David is such a nice,kind and caring man. For the entire summer vacation my life not only was changed but,it was touched. I remember the day he told me about when he went swimming with sting rays. One of the classes I took I wore a new pucca bead neaklace and 2 classes after he brought back a real one from Hawaii! When ever I think about David I go strait up to my room and squeeze it in my hand and remember all the good times I have had in class. As for you Cindy I am so sorry about your loss and I am probably just as hurt by this but greatfull he is not in any pain.
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Lori Ianniello posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
My life has been touched by David's knowledge, caring and giving spirit. He taught me more about the body in water class than many years of various types of physical therapy, doctor's visits and other treatments. His teaching and kindness will remain with me forever. He has been a blessing to me. My heartfelt sympathy goes to Cindy and his family at this time of sorrow. I will continue to work smart, remembering that it is David who brought me such knowledge and courage.
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Margaret Wright posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
It's hard to imagine a world without David in it. He was always there to push me to try harder and to provide a hug when I needed one or a joke when I needed a laugh. He will be missed greatly. My prayers are with Cindy and all of David's family. My life is better because David had been a part of it.
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Eric Anderson posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
David's love and joy could never be quite contained by the room he was in, or indeed by the world itself. I remember how he went to India many years ago afraid that traditional Indian music would make him crazy, only to come home again with a sitar.
I've known very few people with such a wealth of spirit, and such a willingness to see that those around shared in his amazing joy.
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Lisa Visca (Rochester, NY) posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
To Cindy & Family -
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. I know David enjoyed his work so much and that you, Cindy, were his best 'client.' He always spoke so proudly of you and your accomplishments. We have many fond memories of you and David with the old JCC/Scotch & Sirloin crowd back in the late 90s and beyond.
All our Best to you-- Lisa & Paul Visca.
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Lisa Visca (Rochester, NY) posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
To Cindy & Family -
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. I know David enjoyed his work so much and that you, Cindy, were his best 'client.' He always spoke so proudly of you and your accomplishments. We have many fond memories of you and David with the old JCC/Scotch & Sirloin crowd back in the late 90s and beyond.
All our Best to you-- Lisa & Paul Visca.
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Sally Pagan (Ontario, NY) posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
David is sorely missed by all who knew him and had the pleasure of participating in his Aqua fit class. There will never be a class that goes by without reminiscing. We miss you David....God Bless you.
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Joan Charles posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
I was so saddened and shocked to hear about David's sudden passing. He was an excellent instructor at the YMCA, as well as, caring about those he instructed. He will be deeply missed and irreplaceable. My condolences to his wife and family.
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Amy Matsumoto posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
I'm very sad to hear about David's passing. I'll miss his wonderful personality and generous spirit. He'll be missed in the medical tent in Kona. My thoughts and prayers go to Cindy and her family.
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Bob Fox posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
I'm shocked and saddened. David's energy was a foundation of volunteerism for our Center. I will miss his his support, his big smile and his vitality.
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Ed Bohrer posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
I was deeply shocked to hear the news of David's sudden passing. I will always remember David's presence and and his handling of the FLT transition area. The Mary M. Gooley Hemophilia Center and staff will deeply miss David for all he has done through his volunteerism.
My thoughts and prayers are extended to
Cindy and her family at this difficult time.
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Andy Plenge posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Ironman Medical will not be the same without David. His dedication to the athletes care, fellow medical professionals and other Ironman volunteers with beyond comparison. He will be missed more than anyone can describe in words. My condolences to Cindy and all of David's family. I am grateful to have shared a moment of David's time.
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Kelley Tripp posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
My heart will forever miss a man who taught me and my body so much. I will continue to work to provide myself with strength and determination, all thanks to you David!As I step into the pool, your presence will always be felt! Thank you, David for all you gave me. My prayers are with your family and wife today and always.
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Tricia Oppelt (Social Worker at Mary Gooley Hemophilia Center) posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Cindy,
I am sad to hear about David's passing. He was an amazing man who will always be remembered in the hearts of everyone at the Mary Gooley Hemophilia Center. You and your family our in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
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Rona Wyner posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
I was both shocked and saddened to hear of David's untimely passing. He was a wonderful friend to the Mary M. Gooley Hemophilia Center and King of the Finger Lakes Triathlon Transition Area. His presence will forever be missed at our Triathlon. My heartfelt sympathy to Cindy and the family.
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Pam Burris posted a condolence
Monday, February 16, 2009
David was a wonderful and dedicated teacher he always had time for his students,we will miss him.
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Louise Morris posted a condolence
Monday, February 16, 2009
David was an integral part of our Ironman medical team in Kona. We looked forward to his enthusiastic and tireless participation every year. My sincere condolances to his wife Cindy. David will be greatly missed.
Visitation
Following the service, the family will receive friends at their home.
Service Info
A Memorial Service will be held on Thursday, February 19, 2009 at 11:30 AM at Brighton Memorial Chapel (3325 Winton Road South).
Interment
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